First of all, I have not encouraged her to have this surgery. You apparently did not closely read my post. It is HER decision. I will not love her any more or less because of her breast size! I have shared with her on multiple occasions that I am happy with her body. It is she who is not pleased. You have to understand, my DW takes tremendous pride in the way she looks. You must try and imagine what it must feel like for her to have had sizable breasts and then lose them (almost totally).
If you don’t speak from experience on this issue, it may be difficult for you to comprehend. I am merely seeking opinions from other couples who may have addressed this issue. I am one of those very, very few women running around who needs a bra to have breasts! It has always been a real hard place for me to go. I was teased un-mercifully as a teenager by my father (what an ass) and brothers for my lack of breast tissue.
However, I have birthed and breast feed three boys. So at least size doesn’t dictate function . While I was breast feeding the joke was the only time I can wear decent clothes, I leak all over the damn things! Anyway, The thought of having larger breasts is a real tempter, believe me. My DH would surly like the way I looked in some clothes better, as would I.
But I have come to realize that the fear and pain would not be worth the risk of surgery to get a bigger bra size. I continue to work hard to not let my generic traits dictate my selfworth. Its hard and a screaming pity that this society is so sick that breast size evaluates worth.